There is no place for unforgiveness in the body of Christ. It is possibly the greatest barrier to God. More than anything, from it, it causes resentment, bitterness and for those on the receiving end rejection. It is our pride and our self will that so often causes unforgiveness, our pride because we often don’t know how to admit we are wrong and our self will because in the end we have a choice to choose what would be right or what is wrong to do. But God has made it very clear in his Word how we should act towards those who hurt us.
It has been said that love is the greatest power in the universe. Love conquers, love never fails.
It’s also said that a lack of love causes a physical or mental sickness. A dis-ease with self and with others.
So why is forgiving others so important?
The parable of the Unmerciful Servant. Matthew 18:21-35
Forgiving always. Vs 21-22
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?”Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.’
Unlimited Forgiveness.
Unforgiveness brings anger
Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbour, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Ephesians 4:25-27
Kingdom of Heaven. Vs 23-25
Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
God calls us all to settle accounts.
We were lost. He challenged our hearts. The call to repentance is upon all, as an acknowledgement of sin and the need for forgiveness.We become children of God through our repentant heart, acknowledging that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Saviour who bore our sins on the cross in place of us all.
He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed.
1 Peter 2:24
Call for Mercy. Vs 26-27
“The servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, cancelled the debt and let him go.
Sin recognised, call for mercy. Recognise anything?
God’s, Grace and Mercy. Always ready to forgive.
Unforgiveness. Vs 28-31
But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow-servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me?’ he demanded.“His fellow-servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’“But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened.
Love for Enemies
“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who ill-treat you.
Luke 6:27-28
But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
Matthew 5:44
It has been said that love is the greatest power in the universe. Love conquers, love never fails.
It’s also said that a lack of love causes a physical or mental sickness. A dis-ease with self and with others.
So why is forgiving others so important?
The parable of the Unmerciful Servant. Matthew 18:21-35
Forgiving always. Vs 21-22
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?”Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.’
Unlimited Forgiveness.
Unforgiveness brings anger
Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbour, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Ephesians 4:25-27
Kingdom of Heaven. Vs 23-25
Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
God calls us all to settle accounts.
We were lost. He challenged our hearts. The call to repentance is upon all, as an acknowledgement of sin and the need for forgiveness.We become children of God through our repentant heart, acknowledging that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Saviour who bore our sins on the cross in place of us all.
He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed.
1 Peter 2:24
Call for Mercy. Vs 26-27
“The servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on him, cancelled the debt and let him go.
Sin recognised, call for mercy. Recognise anything?
God’s, Grace and Mercy. Always ready to forgive.
Unforgiveness. Vs 28-31
But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow-servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me?’ he demanded.“His fellow-servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’“But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened.
Love for Enemies
“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who ill-treat you.
Luke 6:27-28
But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
Matthew 5:44
100 Denarii (a few pounds) less than 10,000 Talents (millions of pounds)
Forgiveness for the Sinner
If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you, to some extent – not to put it too severely. The punishment inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient for him. Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him. The reason I wrote to you was to see if you would stand the test and be obedient in everything. If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven – if there was anything to forgive – I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes.
2 Corinthians 2:5-1
Consequences of Unforgiveness. Vs 32-33
“Then the master called the servant in. You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I cancelled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow-servant just as I had on you?
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Barrier in Prayer
And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.
Mark 11:25
Importance of forgiveness
It’s simple. If Jesus can forgive all that we have done, what right have we to be any different?
Torment. V 34
In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
Bitterness
See to it that no-one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.
Hebrews 12:15Grieving the Spirit
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Ephesians 4:29-32
Forgiveness from the Heart. V 35
“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”
Accept One
Another Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.
Another Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.
Romans 15:7
Forgive One Another
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Forgive One Another
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32
Do Not Judge
Do not judge and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Luke 6:37
What Happened?
We forget all fall short of the Glory of God. - Romans 3:23
The women caught in adultery found no condemnation before the people when asked by Jesus,
“If anyone of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”
John 8:1-11
A Brother Who Sins Against You and the Church
“If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
“I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.
Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.”
Matthew 18:15-20
The Roman ArmyThe Roman army have captive many prisoners from many armies. These armies all decide to go out to conquer the Roman army and release the captives. Each army dislikes the others. They all happen to meet up on the same battlefield. Instead of fighting the army of Rome they begin fighting each other. The Roman army watch happily while their enemies do what they were to do and they didn’t have to lift a finger. The armies were all supposed to have the same goal yet were not able to succeed for they were too busy fighting each other.
Our enemy is Satan and his army. A way we can be blind and deaf to God’s work is by being too busy fighting each other. When we do this who do we think is laughing? God’s will is not for us to fight each other, while we do that those who need us but more so need God, get ignored. Our real goal is not achieved. We remain never achieving our full potential in God and the people in need remain captives to our real enemy.
Kingdom Divided
If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
Mark 3:24-26
Do Not Judge
Do not judge and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Luke 6:37
What Happened?
We forget all fall short of the Glory of God. - Romans 3:23
The women caught in adultery found no condemnation before the people when asked by Jesus,
“If anyone of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”
John 8:1-11
A Brother Who Sins Against You and the Church
“If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
“I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.
Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.”
Matthew 18:15-20
The Roman ArmyThe Roman army have captive many prisoners from many armies. These armies all decide to go out to conquer the Roman army and release the captives. Each army dislikes the others. They all happen to meet up on the same battlefield. Instead of fighting the army of Rome they begin fighting each other. The Roman army watch happily while their enemies do what they were to do and they didn’t have to lift a finger. The armies were all supposed to have the same goal yet were not able to succeed for they were too busy fighting each other.
Our enemy is Satan and his army. A way we can be blind and deaf to God’s work is by being too busy fighting each other. When we do this who do we think is laughing? God’s will is not for us to fight each other, while we do that those who need us but more so need God, get ignored. Our real goal is not achieved. We remain never achieving our full potential in God and the people in need remain captives to our real enemy.
Kingdom Divided
If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
Mark 3:24-26
Sometimes it’s that We need to Forgive Ourselves!
What If God…?
a) Were as selective in forgiving as you are.
b) Took His time so you could suffer.
c) Told everybody who’d listen what you’ve done to Him.
d) Forgave, but refused to give you another chance.
e) Made up His mind to distance and avoid you.
f) Next time you were in trouble, refused to help you saying, ‘Huh, it couldn’t have happened to a nicer person.’
Could you live with that? NO!
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32
